Sloan: Life and other random thoughts

Random thoughts:

• I wish I had learned to admire people in their twilight years sooner. Their strength in having made it so far is worthy of incredible respect.

They are still living their life, and — no matter how feeble — today is just as important to them as it is to anyone.

Wendel Sloan

• When preachers scream we need a higher power to deliver us from wickedness, it seems rote. Isn’t much of “sinning” just trying to fill a longing? If the circumstances of one’s life fulfilled the longing, would one be tempted by “sin?”

• How much of what we criticize or praise others for is within their control?

How much credit do famous people deserve for being attractive and/or talented — or for charitable work in the spotlight? We can enjoy their talent or beauty without putting them on a pedestal for genetics.

• Arrogance is ignorance.

• How much of what we do for others is truly altruistic? Isn’t part of our motivation to make us feel better about ourselves? Nevertheless, charitable acts are praiseworthy.

• When someone performs a random act of kindness, I hear comments about how rare kindness is in today’s world. I think unkind acts are much more rare. If I am unkind, I suffer interminable guilt.

• I have lost interest in entertainment that only distracts. Whether watching TV, movies or sports, seeing stars having so much more than me only creates dissatisfaction. Unless I learn something applicable to my life, what have I gained?

• Maybe evaluating strangers by appearance is somewhat valid. It is undeniable appearance plays a large role in our journey — although the ultimate destination is a harsh reality for everyone.

• I have a birth secret I disguise which has affected my life since childhood, but have told only a few trusted friends. I wonder if others can relate?

• It surprises me when others consider me significant enough to count on for moral support.

• On his deathbed, Apple founder Steve Jobs said his money and career success meant little — he wished he’d loved people more.

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